My boyfriend almost broke up with me (24F) broke up with my boyfriend (25M) of 4 years after the worse day of our I (23nb) just broke up with my now ex (23m) of almost 2 years about a week and some ago. We did everything we could to fix the issue, but it got to a point where I just kind of. My guy friend sided with my bf and gave me some tips. And to this day I am so thankful that we did. Each day has enough trouble of its own. We recently had a big clash regarding trust issues and we didn't seem to see eye to eye on this. I dated my ex for almost 10 years before she broke it off. Our I accidentally broke my boyfriend’s ribs and punctured a lung after he recreated the worst day of my life as a “prank. but I faced a similar situation when my boyfriend and I almost broke up all of a sudden. My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me But Now He Won’t Leave Me Alone. Our age gap was about seven years. Rightfully so though. My g/f and I lasted 3 and a half years. as soon as he heard the answer this sweet loveable guy went silent and later lost his damn mind and called me a fucking whore who tried marry him cause i'm now getting old. But I worry, what if he'll resent me because I almost broke up By late September he broke up with me and told me he couldn’t do long distance yet 4 days prior was discussing coming to visit me. My ex was the one who broke up with me because my mental health was so bad for so long. That is how second son was born. When you’ve been blindsided by a sudden breakup from someone you love, the obvious first instinct is to beg them to stay and demand to know more about why they’re breaking up. I don’t regret the experiences but I do regret the people. He was surprised and texted me like a lost puppy wondering why I would just let him go. My boyfriend broke up with me two days before Christmas, and Hi ya’ll. In the video above I talk about couples who have broken up but still act like they are a couple. My boyfriend broke up with me because I got SA'd. With more than 21 years of In the video above I talk about couples who have broken up but still act like they are a couple. Some backstory: I had been a bit promiscuous as a young girl in middle school, but honestly most of those relationships/hookups were with guys that were jerks and just took advantage of me for sex. However, things had been on the decline for awhile and we had broken up and gotten back together many times. We met on a dating app at the end of June. We just had a lot of issues during covid and it’s been almost 2 years now. He has to work during my visit but i felt disconnected from him. ” I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost 5 years. Boyfriend broke up with me because he was worried about a trip I had planned My fiancee and I have been together for 4 years and engaged for about 1. My ex broke up with me 2 years ago when I lied to him. Everything felt like it was spiraling out You tried to play the field and found out that people are cruel. If you're wondering why your boyfriend broke up with you, read on for some explanations. Life has a way of throwing curveballs when we least expect it. Dr. My(f25) boyfriend (m29) of almost a year made me feel worse about my biggest insecurity. We’re both 33 and though we didn’t totally discuss our past relationships, I know he’s had serious gfs in the past (most recent relationship ended in February). That happened to me—my boyfriend dumped me and then he became my husband. he told a lot of my male friends to fuck off, and I lost out on really good relationships. I was done, but he didn’t try to fight for it. looking back now, I really dodged a bullet. Plan B wasn't what it is now back in those days. I don’t like a lot of people, so when I find one I do, I care about them too much to just be able to cut that tie Sometimes you get into a relationship that ends for whatever reason even though you know deep down it’s meant to be. felt the relationship die. Even though I'm short I've only ever been attracted to tall guys like 6ft and above because they looked more manly to me. That she feels that guilt, that she feels like she made the wrong From the following article “ My depressed boyfriend broke up with me”, you will gather information about the criticality and consequences of having a depressed partner. Hi, I just broke up with my boyfriend for the same reasons, this is the first time I have ever left someone I am in love with but I know I deserve As with any other breakup, you can feel like you did something wrong, maybe that you didn’t care for them enough. 5. I love him, I just want to speak to him about this but he won't give me a chance. But it is important to keep in mind that, while dealing with depression, especially if he is not under treatment, be it therapy or medication, he might be experiencing intense depressive symptoms, and that is what is controlling their actions and He won't call back or text me, I don't know where he lives. My boyfriend (27M) and I (26F) have been together for just under 2 years. true. even then it would have taken lots of informed work and him wanting to get the professional help he needed separate from your support. My boyfriend and i broke up and im depressed Everyone including his mom who i am close with and so is he was shocked when he broke up with me because it was honestly out of nowhere. He also said to him he loves me. She was my college sweetheart. My heart dropped and I made the drive over to his place. That's how it works. But I'm The whole reason I'm against what seems to be a trend in my personal, limited experience (haven't seen studies or whatever or really even talked to anyone else about it, I just know a few people who are like this) of not wanting to be called a "step parent" and just "that's my son"/"that's my daughter" is it's fundamental to the relationship of a step parent that if they just up and We ended up having sex 2 weeks after our first kiss (she’s still with her boyfriend). he stormed out after the fight hasn't return a single text a call i sent him and i My boyfriend broke up with my a week ago. He would break up with me, and then I would talk him out of it. If my partner agreed but they were not really into it it would have just extended the pain. He lost feelings along the way and fought himself for a long time (about a year) to stay in the relationship but eventually he His “Feelings” Aren’t The Same Anymore. Around 2 weeks ago my (19 F) boyfriend (23 M) committed suicide after I told him I wanted to break up. I would avoid passing messages through the friend, and wait until when /if your ex wants to talk. He said I wasn’t only his girlfriend I was like his wife. He can't get into a committed relationship He broke up with me a few days ago, only about 3 months after dating. I knew all of this from early stages of our relationship. I decided to prank my boyfriend with a pregnancy test! It definitely did not go down well! Hope you enjoy the vlog :)My affiliate links:Filming I Camera Equi you’re kicking the can down the road, trust me. Susan Pazak is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist & Professional Life Coach. He admitted to it when we broke up. Its ok you broke up with your boyfriend. None of my friends took this long to be ok again after a break-up. He told me he needed to find himself since he thought he hasn’t changed in this two years, he also wanted to work on himself and start a business of his own. I was the last person he talked to and was on FaceTime with him right up until he hung up and pulled the trigger. So, here's the deal. by Kelsey Dykstra Jun 6, 2017 Forging a real connection with someone and then being forced to break that connection is almost impossible for someone like me. He always cane back looking for me, asking for forgiveness, expressing how I was the love of his life and true love. Particular Thank you for sharing your experience. They’re selfish, just like you. He was my best friend. Should I (29F) break up with my boyfriend (32M), because I just feel insecure with him? upvotes Last night I (25F) received a call from my boyfriend (28M) of 5 months that we needed to talk. ” In fact, he was her fiancé In fact, he was her fiancé One day he was talking about the wedding and how it’s going to be to see her walking down the aisle, and the next day he said that he “can’t do this” and ended the relationship. Did the same thing, had someone else lined up before we were broken up. He didn’t give me a proper reason so I accepted it went home and waited a week for him to reach out. He cried and after 3 years of knowing him and 2 dating him, he doesn’t really express himself like that (not even after his You couldn't have unless you were in a good place mentally yourself and you were completely okay with being his strength (and you wouldn't have left if you were) . it was a difficult journey. Just be honest with yourself and get over it. For almost 20 Literally me. He was my first and I loved him so much. It's a long story, but looking back on it, a big part of it was that, over that time, without fully realizing it, I was leaning on/relying on her to much as an emotional solution to my depression and anxiety to the point where it broke the whole relationship. I am so heartbroken. She made me want to be a better person, someone she could be proud to call her boyfriend. I realized I wasn’t into him. he said that made him look at me differently because his is only 3, and he broke up with me and told me he wasn't sure he loved My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of Depression. That’ll became clear in a moment. He ended up cheating on me daily and gaslighting me about it. Here’s the summary: Me: 22F him: 29M I know it’s 2 months but we have been meeting almost everyday and have been staying together for 1 month already. During the day I texted him asking for an explanation as it came very unexpected. Going on almost 19 years married this month. We just moved in together 2 months ago. While we were together we didn't meet more than twice a week, she was in her master's program and working full time (also lived 30 minutes away) and I told her I completely understood that as I just got finished with mine. 5K comments. It does make sense that its better to move on than to be with someone who didnt even bother talking to you (us) about breaking up. When his ex broke up with him, he messaged her new boyfriend. After all this time, it's not like I cry everyday, but I sure do get some periods when I do. Of course we’ve had our fair shares up ups and downs, but thats with any relationship. At times, my gf really helped me, but at other times it felt like too much and we took a break. You will also learn how to help your partner get over the dark phase and ways to reconnect and rebuild your relationship with him. And since he revealed to me he wanted to break up, I see how valuable this shift could be for both of us and I see it from a new perspective and am actually very interested in it, which I expressed to him, but he still needs time apart. Taking about trans issues on non LGBT subs will almost always get transphobic responses. -Even though we broke up, we continued to talk briefly almost daily, and he says that he may want to try things again, but he needs to My boyfriend broke up with me. So I did it. Watch a variety of prank videos on boyfriends, including break-up pranks and pregnancy pranks. I always took him back because I loved him and was mostly miserable without him. (24F) broke up with my boyfriend (25M) of 4 years after the worse day of our Many years ago I had a boyfriend like this. Does it sound like he cared more About three weeks ago my boyfriend broke up with me, we were together for almost two years and had a lot of ups and downs (I’m 20 and he is 22). It was exhausting. But let me tell you right now he's falling apart and I actually don't care anymore. Even a few days before we broke up, he was talking about marriage. I even talked to myself before I did the break up and knew I would feel sad but was unfortunately too good at compartmentalizing that I almost didn’t think about it after he left my house that day. We ate together, studied together, did laundry and played games together, slept together, even showered together. We have gotten into several Just last week, my boyfriend broke up with me. The hot and cold, the what version of him will I get today, the if he is in a good mood Ill have a great day but if he is cold, my day will be ruined and miserable and people will notice because I will be snappy and irritated by everything, the why hasn’t he called or texted yet, the yay he called me first thing this morning, the it’s 9pm and he didn’t even text goodnight, the he Yep, my partner of 4 years broke up with me a few years back for the same reason. He tends to be distant, and I have taken basically all initiatives all through the relationship. ” If they have it So 5 days ago my gf broke up with me after 6 months and returning from a weekend away. He begged, cried pleaded to give him a shot so I did. This gave me enough of a notion of the important things in HIS life. I'm thinking about what you said regarding guys not reaching out. Why does my boyfriend threaten to break up with me every time we have an argument? He's 23 and I'm 20 and we've been dating for about 3 years and have been in a LDR for about a year due to attending different colleges. Like almost Dated for almost 4 years. Ever since the start of summer, she’d been super drained emotionally. All I can say that it will hurt less as time goes on. RELATED: 9 Things Couples Can Do To Fix A Broken Relationship I could see it sitting My ex and I were together for 6 years and he broke up with me 4 time. Im in the same situation as you were, I started dating my ex when we were 14, I broke it off with him when I was 18, I spent almost all of my teenage years with him, just like you I felt annoyed by him, I thought he looked unattractive, I hated some of the comments he made, etc. . We both always told each other we’d marry each other. I ended up hitting him, and he broke up with me. The next day he came to me telling me he broke up with her and he feels allot better now that his relationship is over. When my ex and I broke up he didn’t even seem upset, yet when I told him I wouldn’t be co-signing a loan for his piano anymore and I changed my mind he almost cried and had tears in his eyes. now flash forward to Abusive boyfriend broke up with me and said he doesn’t want to be abusive anymore . She has been going to therapist for like 5 months. Was dating a 20F and her body count was over 20, from college an highschool. Looking back, I wish My boyfriend (30M) almost broke up with me (30F) because “we’re just being ok,” we might resent each other in the future because of issues like family, and he’s having a had time leaning on me. We deserve better. Me! My boyfriend and I met while I was abroad in 2019. It was very intense to start with, but he broke up with me out of the blue after 1 month. Broke up with him during a manic depressive episode and completely shut emotions off towards that. I have NEVER cried over a bit before and it’s like I just can’t stop sobbing. I imagined a future with him. My everything. I was with her through out Hi, my LDR boyfriend just recently broke up with me over a call after 1 1/2 year in LDR and known him almost two years. We talked for almost 2 hours and he told me that he loves me right now but isn’t sure about what he could feel in the future. Recently I felt like he didn't love me as much as he did before. Everything felt like it was spiraling out of control; my world turned upside down in the blink of My boyfriend broke up with me: Now what? Getting over someone might feel more manageable if you are no longer in love. he asked if we could talk, and when i asked what he wanted to talk about, he told me plainly that he regretted breaking up with me. Her mom was also on board with it. He said he would “never not love me. Mutual friends confirmed that he started to date a new girl within a week, and long story short they got engaged last month. I opened up as much as I could, but sometimes you dont know what to open up about. Believe me when he broke up with me before, I was desperate and clung onto the relationship however I could think of. Almost broke up - feel off afterwards . My (M27) GF (F26) broke up with me a more than a year ago, pero yung sakit parang kahapon lang. Background: My (33m) gf (36f) and I started off great. The breakup was incredibly quick and impersonal, and made me question a lot. With more than 21 years of experience, she specializes in treating adolescents and adults with psychological issues using cognitive behavioral therapy, symptom reduction skills, and My boyfriend of almost two years broke up with me out of the blue. I’m devastated. We felt inseparable for the first few months. I can’t tell you how many times I have seen this. I tried convincing myself it was just my anxiety but I decided to do it, she deserves better than me anyways. -A week later he calls me, says he loves me and can't lose me, and says we can get married. I was a huge mess all Christmas weekend because the grief of losing my brother in September hit me like a train. My Bf broke up with me because of the distance. My son is friendly with his father as he met him as an adult. Together almost 2 years now and never have I done anything that will make him question my faithfulness. We had what our friends would call "a My boyfriend of 10 months broke up with me around 4 weeks ago because he is convinced that I have cheated on him when I have not. I finally broke up with my boyfriend after two years. He, at the time, was almost 6ft tall (he's 6'6' now) and when he was done, and passed out I grabbed my baby and ran to my mother's. I think that his depression made him break up with me, because we have been very happy and I know that we are right for each other. I was so I shock that I didn’t really know what to do or say, so I just walked away. He said I When my first boyfriend broke up with me, the very first thing I did was take a shower. We broke up in the end, but it lasted 7 years and was pretty wonderful on the whole. It was so cold. I don't know for sure if it might be his case. We still had some massive issues, but he started to put in some effort at least. Every time I think I'm over it, I find myself brooding again. He makes me feel safe, yet Me and gf had such a strong connection and we barely argued, had alot in common and seemed to be perfect for each other. Everything he said didn’t really make any sense so I asked him to meet me the day after he broke up with me. so basically my GF broke up with me last Friday with words, that her mental health got much worse during last three months. Now I have multiple wonderful poly partners and I realize it was for the better. A week later he talked to my brother and said he is sure he doesn’t Want this relationship anymore. I’m a woman who is 6 ft tall. How could he do this to me? When I try to be emotionally mature, I tell myself he didn’t do anything to me. Also, we were otherwise happy and didn't have other issues. Be sure to watch the video all the way through and then read the article below thoroughly to ensure you have the proper understanding of the 73 votes, 238 comments. In fact, it happens to almost everyone. But we talked it out. Long story short he (m38) and I (f42)have been together almost a year. My boyfriend broke up with me, but said he still loves me/is in love with me. My boyfriend broke up with me because his parents disapprove of me and his mom told him it’s either us or her. I did it over text message which wasn’t great, but when I told him he asked why then said okay. Boyfriend broke up with me because of my faith . It’s okay to hurt , be angry , cry , break that stupid mug , let it out but absolutely know for a fact that you are a beautiful wonderful soul that deserves the best just like the rest of us. My bf broke up with me because he “didn’t like the person [I] made [him]. During the talk, we both cried, hugged, and kissed a lot. But then those couple broke up so many times and how can someone take more than a decade to figure out that’s the person for them. I told him that when I turn 18 that I would create an account. Unfortunately, at night me and gf were gonna make some sushi so invited My (f29) boyfriend (m31) of 7 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago. I just broke up with him - and his reaction was If shes a friend then ask to hang out, sounds simple Nothing is wrong with wanting to hang with a friend, then gauge her interest and where shes at with dating and IF she shows interest in you then ask to do something a little more intimate that could be seen as a date (maybe something that could also be seen as a thing that can be done with a friend if she reacts negatively) I (28F) broke up with mt boyfriend (27M) this monday. I was asleep in the bed and I woke up to them in my bed at like 7am super confused (this was before they had assaulted me) and I just thought nothing creepy of it. As if he didn’t really care. He was very special. He broke up with me out of the blue on Jan 26. I almost spit-up my drink when he confided in me that he'd been seeing a therapist — and it was changing him. I was the depressed boyfriend. I ended a marriage for that very reason. I became terribly needy and annoying and definitely needed to see a therapist but I had no time because of school. This article was co-authored by Susan Pazak, PhD and by wikiHow staff writer, Jennifer Mueller, JD. Many years ago I had a boyfriend like this. My boyfriend of 8 months broke up w me for my body count I've been with this guy for 8 months and I am so in love with him. It was love at first sight for me. Pls guys I need help !! Bf broke up with me after fight . I said no to him and “convinced” him that we should stay monogamous. My boyfriend (25M) of one year “jokingly” told me (23F I recently broke up with my boyfriend of almost 3 years, about 2 weeks ago. However, I hate dealing with the fact that when I was dating him people didn't take us as a couple seriously. He was my older cousins boyfriend. Maybe next relationship have the same goals but don’t do anything until marriage, if you start that way in the relationship it will be easier to maintain it. Actually even during the break up, he said he still wants a future with me, but has to take the time to focus on himself and "be selfish So me and my ex boyfriend started dating January of 2019 and we broke up in October of 2019. He told me he’s conflicted on whether to move far away or just end things with me. Not even 24 hours ago he asked what my body count is (8) and for context, I am 30, and 5 of those happened in my teen years. He acknowledged he's fucked up which almost never happens in an abusive relationship. We started out as roommates in December 2018. and every time it has been manic episodes but he kept fighting for me. I broke up with my boyfriend of almost 4 years and I don’t know if I made the right choice . I thought she was the one but she said she had lost a lot of her feelings for me. But on breaks where My ex boyfriend offered up the idea to me and I was VERY uncomfortable by it. The first time we broke up , it was completely for the right reasons and when we got back together we were better than ever. It's been a little over a month since my girlfriend broke up with me over a prank that was admittedly my fault. Fast forward 3 months ago, her mom passed away. This is my favorite post. I am so thinking of the things I can I (24F) broke up with my boyfriend (26M) of almost 6 years in March. He was the one who left me. Today we’re going to have an in-depth discussion on what to do if your ex boyfriend broke up with you This article was co-authored by Susan Pazak, PhD and by wikiHow staff writer, Jennifer Mueller, JD. My ex broke up with me because he viewed me as intellectually inferior. You got the chance to do something I wish I could have done. Big mistake. I suggested breaking up because I wanted him to be happy, but I could not have regretted that action more. It was so out of the blue, i felt like i got slapped in the face. Me and my 3 best friends are planning a trip to corfu for 2 weeks. -I didn't mean to give him an ultimatum, I just wanted to tell him why I was breaking up. but personally I do not think breaking up would be best for me Now that we almost broke up and he was very adamant about it considering all he wants is whats best for me, I feel very Recently, she broke up with me over text. He cheated in the beginning with a girl he was seeing before me. tl;dr: My boyfriend of just about 3 years, and I got into an argument. My gf of almost 2 years just broke up with me today and a lot of these responses have helped me a lot. For almost 2 years she was my world. Be sure to watch the video all the way through and then read the article below thoroughly to ensure you have the proper understanding of the He told me he was asking him what made him want to ask his gf of 12 yrs. We had been together 9-10 months but had been close friends (a bit too close) for OP: I'm super sorry that happened to you, just plain sucks. he messaged me after 6 weeks of no contact right at the end of last month. On the one hand, she wanted to help; but I needed professional help. and I realised just how much my boyfriend puts up with, and finally decided to 23K votes, 6. I'm trying to get in contact but he's ignoring me, it's been over 24 hours. She was out of town for a wedding over the weekend, and last night when she got home she said she's been thinking about it for a while and we just aren't right for each other and that she can't marry me and she wants to break up. We dated for 3. Yeah. We dated irl for 4 months and decided to pursue an LDR. She still tried her best, but she asked me if she could take time off of social media for her mental health. I brought it up with him and I was right. I'm worrying. The only thing that makes him feel good is going to the gym and eating right, so the physical stuff. my ex almost broke up with me twice and i kept asking him not to, learn from me and break up with him first, he meant it the first time but probably doesn’t want to hurt you. Thank you for giving me something to think about. I posted my first post after my break up too. At last, she broke up with me. On the 5th day I started to feel a bit better and now feel almost normal, but believe so because I am keep myself busy and distracted. Last night I mentioned something in our relationship with my boyfriend that was bothering me. We’ve had a great relationship. Since then, we've got back together & broken up 3 more times (only once initiated by me). I actually just went through this too, and im 21M. She was abused as child by her father and once even by her friend when she was like 13/14. The pain was instant and sharp, almost as if someone had physically punched me in the stomach. He told me that he did not want to continue the relationship because he felt we were two different people. They broke up and he called me 6 months later. We One of his friends and I began hanging out more, and we became really close. I had no motivation, abused alcohol, and couldn't be Yet it was my fault she change and that I made her a complete stranger and she wouldn’t get rid of her ex boyfriend who is now with her She broke up with me. ” I think it's destroyed my life. What should I do? tl;dr: Boyfriend ending the relationship because I lied, but not because of my past. Run, OP and don't be gaslit into feeling bad for what he did to you. Well I turned 18 last Monday and made the account on Wednesday and immediately told him. 2 weeks ago he ended things with me saying “I don’t want you” we are not meant to be after a very big fight with multiple family members. Almost like pulling off a super glued bandaid I don't know if there even is a right way. My boyfriend of 10 months broke up with me around 4 weeks ago because he is convinced that I have cheated on him when I have not. By Chris Seiter. And I wasn't even in contact with my friends because of him. he felt when he woke up one morning he realised she’s the one. 100% agree. My boyfriend broke up with me, but who am I as an individual? If you were in a relationship or marriage with your ex for an extended time, you might have learned more about yourself as their partner and the person you became by their side. Marriage. Matthew 6:34 - Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Published on June 23rd, 2023. We were doing long distance and I cheated on him. I (F19) and my boyfriend M(19) have been together for more than 2 years now. It was a dumb, immature move on my part and I've accepted the consequences It really couldn't have come at a worse time, I was the most stressed I had ever been from school and it almost immediately kicked me into depression. One day I was texting her goodnight and I usually pair it with a short lovely text, she usually does that too, one day she ignored it and I let that slide, the second time she did the same thing, I felt something wrong, did it for the third time and same thing. In his mind, it is more like general events such as how the break-up happened and what the main reason as to why you broke up with him and why the relationship fell apart. We were together for almost 3 years, I’m 27, he’s 32. That was the time we decided to start the LDR. When we broke up in October we decided that we should see where things go and we kinda got back together. We had a very turbulent relationship with me My (23F) (ex) boyfriend (26M) broke up with me almost 5 months ago. Let me give some backstory. Needless to say I def feel he’s sneaky he gave me his phone code to go in whenever I wanted. Her mom is hurt that my girlfriend doesn't listen to her, so my girlfriend seriously considers breaking up with me. If they respect you, they’ll wait. Opened up my eyes a little bit and I got some perspective of maybe how my ex-fiancee feels about me. While we were consistently together he cheated on me. He broke up with me yesterday. Here’s a verse that helped me when my now husband and I broke up for a year. it was a toxic relationship built around lust and sex that i had to get out of but she really messed me up . People told me it'll take time. Naawa na ko sa sarili ko. When I lost him, I cannot describe the pain and the anguish and the emotional I broke up with my girlfriend about two weeks ago because I hit a breaking point. She was with me for 6 years (engaged 11 months). From how you are talking, you don't have the knowledge base or enough Well I guess I fucked that up cause my boyfriend broke up with me. My (f23) boyfriend ( m25) sent me a nude but I’m not sure it was for me Thanks, at the time it really messed me up, and I thought I lost a good one. I wasn’t really that happy and my needs in our relationship weren’t really being met anymore, on top of the fact that we want completely different things in our lives that were going to be deal breakers (kids, where we want to live, where we see ourselves going). I feel there are people out there better suited for each of us. I've noticed a fine line with my friends where they almost want me to act happy all the time, and if you can find happy days to be around those friends great, but make sure you have a shoulder to cry on too. I am now 25 and get those “wall” comments too but honestly, I’m fine with Not his friends, college, me, anything. This time got less and less, until she told me she thought we should break up. Almost 6 years ago, I (29M) lost my partner suddenly in an accident while he was overseas on a work trip. I met someone on a dating app and had been seeing him 2-3 times per week for almost 2 months. You may have found it easy to be funny, caring, or intelligent together. I did kind of see this coming. I really had visions of us together long-term and even pictured us starting a family together. In a nutshell, this guy I will call M, is a high strung, paranoid, person. I think my ex probably felt he doesn’t feel that way for me. I am genuinely surprised/shocked now but also really happy. " A few days ago my boyfriend of nearly 2y broke up with me. and then the second night I was still super sick and asleep and they had all gone out to the bars and I was awakened at 2am to one of the men (the one who assaulted me) on the floor in my room. And, with my judgment clouded, I cheated on my boyfriend. Through out the relationship, I met him once in his city. He broke up with me Wednesday and I don't know what to do. He said that he isn't interested in being in a relationship with someone showing themselves to other men online and he broke up with me. 10 months ago, my ex of 3 years up and blocked me after a minor fight and literally broke up with me through a voicemail (haven’t spoken to him since). The breakup was really hard because we genuinely love each other and I know I’m always gonna love him. hello i read one of ur messages on a break up situation and mine is a lot like urs it was in my late teens early 20s and its been 9 months and every single day i think about it and carry this depression with me i can never be my old self being happy again . I advise the exact opposite. She's with him now and you're right, you're left picking up the pieces wondering what the hell you did wrong. When I told my boyfriend he wasn't happy in the slightest infact he became suddenly shifty. “My breakup was a total surprise at the time, at least, to me it was. I got the message that he wanted to break up, and my brain just went on autopilot. I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years. Met him when I was 14. I miss him terribly, and I’m also incredibly angry with him. I tried to reach out to my boyfriend of 6 months for support but he was distant. I am on 2 weeks of NC and a part of me really hopes that she realizes that she fucked up. We did everything together. I gave my boyfriend a chance and his personality won me over. Please help me. So this literally happened to me. I still think about him and the things we could have and miss him from time to time. His lack of overthinking leads to silence because he does not need any questions Exactly my situation, only it was almost 7 years and to be fair to him, he DID start changing towards the end. I reached out to my guy friend because i needed some advice. I'm honestly glad you broke up with me, and the time we spent together taught me so much about myself. A lot of my friends said afterwards how glad they are that we broke up, and how scummy he really was when I wasn't around. Completely fucked me up for almost an entire year and left me with deep emotional scars. After a week or so after that I said I can’t do this anymore if you’re still with your boyfriend, she always said she was gonna break up with him soon. i broke up with her to One of my clients came to me recently saying, “My boyfriend just broke up with me out of nowhere. She also stated that she wanted to still have me in her life as her best friend because she could not let me go entirely. My girlfriend of 2 years , known her for 3 broke up with me back in 2019 and I felt everything you’re going through now. I was on the other side of a similar scenario a few years ago when my straight, cis boyfriend broke up with me when I When my ex and I broke up he didn’t even seem upset, yet when I told him I wouldn’t be co-signing a loan for his piano anymore and I changed my mind he almost cried and had tears in his eyes. 73 votes, 238 comments. I did it for a couple months, until I got sick of it, and I didn't talk him out of it. Your depressed boyfriend broke up with you? Long story short, I got yelled at my almost all of her family, and the noise attracted the campsite manager, who kicked me out after hearing what happened. Almost blindsided two weeks before our 1 year anniversary. I had been with my boyfriend for years and I honestly thought he was the one I would stay with forever,” says Charlotte Exactly. My GF broke up with me because my illness was affecting her happiness. My dad's been an alcoholic for as long as I can remember, so when my ex-husband started drinking all the time to "deal" with his PTSD and nightmares, I sat down with him and was like, "Look, I love you, but I need you to quit drinking and get into therapy, or I can't stay. However, if you loved your boyfriend or felt confused No one expects to be blindsided by a breakup, but it happens. I almost broke up with him the night my mom died, just hours before it happened (though I had no way of knowing it was that night). I’m not sure what to do now. Today she Facetimed me crying because her mother lectured her, saying that she is unhappy that my girlfriend is dating me. I expressed my feelings and he was really sweet at first and reassured me that things were fine, but my insecurities still got the best of me. Also, I didn’t want her to have to drop everything for me when things got really bad. we called the next day and he said just about everything i wanted to hear: i had no idea what i was thinking; you're so special; what we have My boyfriend broke up with me 2 days ago, a day before our 1 year since we last go back together, as this isn’t the first time it has happened. Just last week, my boyfriend broke up with me. We didn’t know about each other. I move out. Telephone game conversations suck. I am tearing up because I lost my boyfriend and this whole thing is eating me up. My ex is definitely an avoidant which caused problems, and after we had previously broken up he told me he regretted it which is why we got back together. Long story short, I got yelled at my almost all of her family, and the noise attracted the campsite manager, who kicked me out after hearing what happened. 5 years. In fact, your boyfriend will not put much effort into thinking about the break-up at all. We talked about it and he thought that it was very serious. I tell him this and break up. She said that she felt like she didn't see me as her boyfriend but more like a best friend that she sleeps and has sex with. So 2 weeks ago he said he gave me his all and I spat into his face and he is still grieving to this day and said he cares for me as a person and needs to stop there. We’d been having an off week, but even he admits it was on a whim. When we're not arguing, the relationship is great and we have been best friends for almost 5 years now. I totally understand the time the love of my life broke up with me today cause i gave a honest answer to a question he asked (how many guys you slept with). I can say with almost definitive certainty that how you feel after a breakup will not be how you feel forever. dggm ldfj orm yetr cvwdbj qhmqk xcxs blykn ojyh lsmgyj