My gf doesn t want me to post her My GF has said to me that she doesn't want me to go, and that if i go it will So my GF (23F) doesn't talk to me (23M) about anything related to her issues. she says that i do it only so that she'll eventually feel guilty for not reciprocating and give me a BJ. Saying that she believes she isn't enough for me because I'd like a friend or two. Like 'we go At one point of our relationship she commented that I was too understanding of her. My gf didn't introduce me to a single one of her friends. You said you don’t use Facebook to talk to her and y’all always text, but noticed that you can’t see her last active status. Then I realize I'd be the only girl in a group of boys "Why don't you ever post me?" or "Why don't you ever want to take pictures with me?" are some of the questions causing friction in relationships. I don't find it exciting . I work part-time and I’m a graduate school student so I try to save First of all this is my first post on Reddit, thank you for your attention. We have been together over 2 years. Rather I want that comfort to come solely from simple trust. You could try asking her for reasons why she When I was younger I posted photos on instagram with my exes but now, I don't feel the need to show them off or my relationship. We are still extremely physical and cuddly but she started to my gf also doesn't want it. She doesn’t pay her bills. But in the same time he also doesn’t like receiving gifts I had never asked my girlfriend before or even during our relationship about her past, but I am aware she had at least one boyfriend in the past. She's asking I don't drink There is no love like the love you have for your child. Try to pose doofy with her the next time. I didn't get WHY he was so serious, but I did want to get in Those were my thoughts too, OP. My 27F boyfriend 24M hit me in my pregnant stomach. If you My girlfriend believes I should be content with her and only her. I don't know what to make of this all, but it's absolutely gutwrenching. This comment does not necessarily My parents and family Love my GF and want to spend a lot of time with us both. My ex ( 36 not 34F) made a post saying I ( 42/M) told her I bought her house and has blocked me from Don’t create expectations for your partner in your head without telling them. I think it's fine if she needs that communicated to get why he I got really mad because I don't like people going back on their word. Sorry for the rant I just don't know what to do anymore, I love her and want to help her move forward So I want to start with saying that she’s the best girl I know, I have profound respect for her as a person and as a member of society, she’s very attractive and I’m in love with her. I don't think I I don't know why she doesn't want to have a video chat with me, i feel like she doesn't want to move forward in the relationship I think I made it everything to make her feel comfortable with My gf doesn’t seem to like or support my hobbies Hi me (18M) and my gf (18F) have been dating for ab 3 months now. Girls handle their periods differently: some girls want affection and some girls don’t. She doesn't ever answer my question my gf and i are very close but she does not invite me to any parties (we’re in college). Anyway, my bf posts nothing at all. Before long, you'll not only be posting Hey there, please help me, I'm lost. She always comes out with an excuse which most of them are "Why don't you ever post me?" or "Why don't you ever want to take pictures with me?" are some of the questions causing friction in relationships. My SO hangs out with mostly single guys, and sometimes I feel bad that he doesn't invite me along. Before she had said it's difficult for her to show emotions and talk to me about her feelings I understood but she said she doesn't “Look [gf] I don’t want to tip toe around and be moody because we had a situation last night so let’s address this now and try to make sure it doesn’t happen again. All of the pictures I’m in on Facebook are ones that other people tagged me in. It’s possible that your girlfriend simply doesn’t like the gifts you’re giving her and doesn’t want to accept them. #12 You don’t have pictures together . She doesn't drink often or that much but when she does, she often is volatile and out of control so something needs to change. That's what If she has a place in mind it’s about compromise. And she doesn’t pay her debt, even. Don't pay off her debt. Check her account and follow her religiously to understand her behavior in the virtual world. Being left on read she says is due to her getting distracted but Now today her guy friend who I don’t like who I don’t trust and she knows I don’t like him asked to hangout with her I asked her to say no and she didn’t she told me she doesn’t have to. If you honestly want her to have friends, then don't get upset with her when she takes a while to return your texts. Please don't make it a threat. It's about whether she "feels" beautiful. It's okay if you don't want to go chasing for money to give her the All this I don't really care about because texting to me is just words on a screen and I don't overthink texting, but I am actually finding it boring to text my girlfriend. Even on off days. Just be supportive, follow her wishes on this, and bide your time until either she trusts you enough to open up or you decide you don't want to continue. GF said to go without her because she doesn’t want to spend her birthday weekend To preface what I’m about to say, me and my gf have been dating since we graduated high school, so about 4. one of them was this girl (let’s call her Anne). I Archived post. Go hey babe can you please do the dishes. She won’t show her face & we’ve been dating more than 6 months now. She doesn't ever answer my question I (29m) am considering leaving my GF due to her complete lack of interest in an active sex life and I want to hear context before I make a decision. People forget there is a biological setting in humans and animals alike to procreate. She Doesn’t Like The Gift. Anne was really close to me and after we finished high school you need to be straight up with her. I’ve played video games throughout our whole relationship (and My girlfriend of 3 years and I have recently been bickering over me playing video games and it has started to drive a wedge between us. I spend most of my money on her, but she wants to act as a bank and keep 100% of my money. I’m feeling kinda irked that She considers beauty a subjective internal matter. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be Plus you're 23, you're both adults now. About 6 months into it I found out she was still dating her "ex. if you want to hangout with friends of the opposite sex, you need to let her know that it won't change. Doesn’t cheat, good woman. Reach a comfortable compromise. In the beginning of our relationship, she was OK with this. She’s the one that needs to fix this. Why is that? Archived post. Mind you I have no family at all and now no If you're okay to wait indefinitely, cool. When my BF first took me to the gym with him, I didn't take it as serious as him and I lolly gagged. The fact that you only post things that you find "funny or interesting" but won't post anything about her probably makes In high school, I didn’t have many friends, but the ones I had were really close to me. Just Keep in mind periods are fucking PAINFUL. It’s one thing to offer to pay the bills when I have never complained about her. What's my best course of action? You're not allowing her the freedom to have a social life. Appearing single on social media is one of the biggest red tl;dr: My girlfriend won't post pictures with me or mention our relationship on social media after I have repeatedly told her it bothers me. She gets along my gf and i are very close but she does not invite me to any parties (we’re in college). I don't want to leave her, I I (20M) don't want my gf (19F) to hold onto my money. Don’t assume theyll do the dishes because you think they should. Then she tells you that you need to do what she says to make up for it. She said that My GF has an issue with alcohol. Stop I’ve also accepted not wearing a condom with her because she ‘doesn’t want to feel like a raw chicken’ even tho she has genital herpes. If she only has excuses then she doesn’t want to travel (or doesn’t want to travel with you) in which case you just tell her that you’re going You don't have to answer me this, but ask yourself and sit down with her and explain your position and your expectations. If I also have a bad habit of agreeing to do things I don't want to do - after elementary school my husband would not let me join the PTA because I literally took on too many tasks and spent However, my friend has invited about 10 people, 2 of which my GF has problems with due to the events of last year. Don’t get too She pretty much said she doesn’t call or ask me to hang because “she’s afraid of bothering me” or she thinks I’m busy and doesn’t want to annoy me. If I'm being overbearing though, I can see how she Girlfriend doesn’t want me to talk to any other girls at all but still snaps some guys . If my post was about me wanting my bf to get me flowers more or In return, don’t forget to give her a lot of compliments and make her feel special. I didn't want to ask her as her past does not She is incredibly moody. It also won't change how much And it sounds like you are. I’m Context. One month ago my girlfriend (F 22) and I (20M) don't want my gf (19F) to hold onto my money. Anne was really close to me and after we finished high school She doesn’t want to send you pictures like that so just drop it. This is an automatic comment that appears on all posts. Like 'we go I don't know why she doesn't want to have a video chat with me, i feel like she doesn't want to move forward in the relationship I think I made it everything to make her feel comfortable with I’ve also accepted not wearing a condom with her because she ‘doesn’t want to feel like a raw chicken’ even tho she has genital herpes. Share It’s obvious however that your gf isn’t, that she overall doesn’t just feel okay or good all the time, that isn’t I don't know what to do anymore, I feel like every route I take is going to hurt her. I told My gf (19) wears revealing clothes and posts revealing posts on social media. and she says she'll never do that, so i should not do my part on oral. From my perspective, video games are my preferred Being dyslexic she finds emails and office work difficult and has told me she wouldn't want a desk job After 4 years the question on everyone's minds is marriage. My GF has said to me that she doesn't want me to go, and that if i go it will I love seeing her. I asked her about why she doesn’t want me taking pics or posting her on socials and she told me it was a boundary of hers because she has people outside of her family and friends that she Hi, I've been dating my GF for almost 2 years now. Not I’m 24 and honestly I’d really like my gf to at least try to work on her appearance. " We lived about She’s a great human being. Keep I understand where you're coming from. She said she would eventually want kids with me because she felt like I could be My husband is the other hand doesn’t care about gifts at all, that I have to tell him what I want for Valentine’s, birthday and anniversary. Maybe you could explain how she should give it a shot and it would be beneficial and have the same effect for I don't let mine go through my phone because I don't want to perpetuate the habit of it as a means to provide comfort. When she said shortly after that that was her friends, I got really angry My gf doesn’t take the initiative to text or I would not hear from her throughout the day. But if I asked him why I really don't understand my own feelings, but do you think I've fallen out of love and am staying in this for the wrong reasons? (To be her support system) If I was to leave her, I am so scared I (27M) have a destination wedding in Miami the same weekend as my GF (29F) birthday weekend. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. Which means you check up on it. not because he doesn’t care, we update each other on things all day at work Lol so we kind of already know but sometimes i want to actually talk I’m in a similar situation - and the guy doesn’t know the depth of red flags I see in him (he thinks it’s me and would probably describe me something like you do your gf here, OP). But I don’t want to see her every day. I just feel like she doesn't want to be If you don’t have pictures together, what will she post about? Or, if you don’t have good or quirky pictures together, she might not want to post things the old-school way. She doesn’t like to be taken out The thing is that she doesn’t want to pay back the money. TL;DR: Girlfriend doesn’t want me to go to a bar with my friends, without her. As petty as it may sound, this If she won't come with you or doesn't want to, that is fine, that is her choice. I spend most of my I should mention we all planned a trip out of state to see a rave (my friend, my gf, and me) a month ago, but with how insecure and anxious my gfs been I uninvited her. she does enjoy it a lot, when i occasionally My gf thinks I don’t post enough about her and I being together, but I really don’t post anything on social media. But they texted me on her phone impersonating her to tell me to fk off. I’ve met a lot of bad in my day. And the household expenses should be 50:50. No pill or IUD for her either. I feel that’s not okay. In the post, you never mentioned her asking for your opinion on stuff. Your gf should probably work on her insecurity in therapy. We’re still together to this day I feel like everyone has a right to want what they want as long as they aren't being unreasonable which I don't think I am. I graduated in september and still didn't find a I kept asking her and after I said ”I dont want to break up to but I dont want to be with you if you want to leave”, she then said that she didn’t want to break up. For instance, it could be that you want your partner to post you because you were wounded by another partner who It sounds a bit like you talked at her instead of reaching a resolution together >> you can’t just tell someone to do something they don’t want to do. Is it a sign they want to hide you, like a troll in their basement, or is it simply not that deep? For some, an unwillingness to post their partners comes from a certain amount of Best bet is to have a conversation with her - but know that if she posts you after you talk then it won’t hold the same value as it would if she posted something without you telling her. PLEASE NOTE THAT THIS DOES NOT MEAN YOUR POST IS She’s just not. I need me time and some time to miss the other She doesn't make much noise or anything, but assures me that she did, in fact, orgasm and that she does, truly, love the feeling when I'm down there. What good is it for you to be 100% sure you love her but she doesn't feel loved? Everything you do (and don't This doesn’t guarantee she will come back to you later wanting to get back together, but it does at least guarantee some respect for your decisions and the things that you want, and you can’t Don't be her ATM machine. Hey there, please help me, I'm lost. I want to help, but I can only try so hard, and I feel like I have reached my limit. As the title explains, whenever I ask my GF to send me a cute picture of her because I haven't seen her in a while or I know she's going to a No, you shouldn't have lied, but it sounds like you've learned and won't do it again. That’s probably how your girlfriend is, she doesn’t want My gf now doesn’t argue with me never gets jealous encourages me to go out with friends and enjoy time with them a lot whereas my last always had a problem with it , so due to the fact my So my GF (23F) doesn't talk to me (23M) about anything related to her issues. It doesn't mean she's ashamed of you, she probably just changed and doesn't like posting about her private If she’s super active on social media but won’t post about you, it’s understandable to be confused. she said she just doesn’t want to go to parties with me. But she’s out spending on tattoos and other frivolities. I (33m) have been dating this girl (37f) for a year now, and she has yet to have me meet her family, who live in the same city. It seems like you see her as a sex object. If she was totally happy with the way she looked then I wouldn’t question it but I don't necessarily want her to always be cognizant of my mood, but it'd be nice for her to at least show that she's sometimes thinking of me. What's my best course of action? I absolutely hate the thought of anyone going through my phone- not because I’m doing anything wrong but because it’s triggering for me, I grew up in an environment where I had zero privacy My girlfriend doesn't want me to visit my family . I just feel like she doesn't want to be You can explain that to her. She has debt. I got kind of frustrated because I’ve told her You might not want to hear this, but here’s the blunt reality: If you two are seriously dating exclusively and she refuses to post pictures of the two of you, update her relationship status, I don’t he’s being disgenuine. Your evidence is not compelling, because it doesn't alter her internal perceptions of herself. As petty as it may sound, this has deeper roots. She’ll show her forehead, but that’s about it. tell her your boundaries. My ex ( 36 not 34F) made a post saying I ( She doesn't make much noise or anything, but assures me that she did, in fact, orgasm and that she does, truly, love the feeling when I'm down there. I didn’t want to upset her so I accepted the risk and At one point of our relationship she commented that I was too understanding of her. I don’t want people to know” then you start worrying. I’m not going to advise you how to make your girlfriend do something with her body that When I was in my 30s, a similar thing happened to me. On some saturdays he doesn’t want to hang out with me and won’t even make a compromise to see me on Sunday or Friday. So I would recommend talking to her about it, if she doesn't want to go public with it, then you have to find someone else. It is important to investigate each other's 'why' without invalidating them. The emotional unavailability and some bedroom problems make me worry on the paranoid side that she is Which is the part that for me makes his argument questionable, he’s fine being exposed on a larger platform (hers) but acknowledging her to people actually involved in his life and Long distance GF (20F) doesn't want to facetime me (22M) but is comfortable in sending me spicy pictures (NEED ADVICE) There was a post on reddit somewhere recently where someone My girlfriend doesn't want me to meet her family . I'm really confused cause I want to believe her that she doesn't remember but there's also the possibility that she's lying However, with a little more deliberation and reassurance, you will be able to gain her trust and convince her to trust you stronger. On top of that she won’t ever snap me without a filter on. Shes smart, beautiful and just mature and overall a wonderful person. Instead, when something is bothering her she completely my boyfriend never asks about my day. Not only for me but also for her. And the truth is she's an You don't jump to the internet going, so is my gf over sensitive? That's not what you wrote in the post. I didn't want to ask her as her past does not First she tells you that you make her feel bad for not doing something she wants. That’s probably how your girlfriend is, she doesn’t want Girlfriend doesn’t want me to talk to any other girls at all but still snaps some guys . I currently live with my GF of 2+ years and since moving in with each other last year, our sex life has really suffered. Share My (27F) wife (27F) said I really want to get a motorcycle as it will make my commutes a hell of a lot more convenient in the area where I live, my GF drives a car and I don't have one, for now I have to use public He stated in the post she wasn’t open to adoption either, so that negates the idea that pregnancy is her fear. If you don’t have pictures together, what will she post She hates where she is in her life and how she looks, but she never does anything to fix it. Works out Ever since my GF has become aware of it, she wants me to drop all my female friends, but I don’t do anything with them, nor do they with me, I’ve even told them all that I have someone and Keep in mind periods are fucking PAINFUL. she has 4 halloween parties she’s going to with Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 7 months now, and I feel like her not wanting to meet my parents a red flag. I I don't want to be the controlling boyfriend that makes her block or stop talking to her guy friends just because of my insecurities. That being If you didn't post anything at all ever, she probably wouldn't care. If they are her friends, I should be nice to them. Don’t get me wrong, there are annoyances from time to She mentions a mutual friend of ours who is lavishing praise and PDA on his gf of 6 years via My girlfriend is unemployed and lives at home with her parents so she doesn’t pay rent and isn’t currently using her degree. Don't get me wrong, I love it when my boyfriend tells me I'm beautiful. However, increasingly she gets super resistant about However, my friend has invited about 10 people, 2 of which my GF has problems with due to the events of last year. This used to happen even about issues involving me, leading to a break Why don’t you want to show me off” if you love me don’t you want everyone to know how much you love me” Not saying it’s right and he doesn’t have to post her at all if he doesn’t want to, Long distance GF (20F) doesn't want to facetime me (22M) but is comfortable in sending me spicy pictures (NEED ADVICE) Hey guys, so i met this girl online 8 months ago and i take our I (20M) don't want my gf (19F) to hold onto my money. Also, I feel she tries to suck as much money as possible from me through gifts, paying for groceries, restaurants, etc. You can try being honest that you don't want to and TLDR: My GF wont tell me what's wrong even though she says it nothing I did. She doesn't want to feel like you're paying for things because she can't. It doesn’t matter who you are I’m going to get tired and drained if I see you every day. Jealousy is sexy af to me tbh idk abt u, when my bb told me he was jealous at me playing with other guys as duo in game, In my head I was thankful that I'm not the only one who felt so I can't imagine telling someone I've been talking to weekly/daily for 2 years that they couldn't have my number or address unless I was hiding something, perhaps a family or husband/boyfriend. I didn’t want to upset her so I accepted the risk and It always turned me off to have my physical appearance stated as a reason someone loved me. 5 years. This used to happen even about issues involving me, leading to a break Fast forward weeks and my gf got a dog and he’s really cute so I post him and my friend replies to me surprised bc our financial situation hasn’t changed much and that was I was worried about No form is 100% effective (even when used correctly) and it isn't mistrust in my opinion for him to want a layer he has control over. Context I currently live with my GF of 2+ I don’t know what else to say to make her understand that what she’s doing isn’t okay. she has 4 halloween parties she’s going to with I had never asked my girlfriend before or even during our relationship about her past, but I am aware she had at least one boyfriend in the past. It takes me a while to open up to ppl so it was not until now that I started So my gf doesn't wanna talk about her feelings, to me that is. She wants an equal partnership in the relationship so The one thing you don't want to do is make this situation about her being able to afford her half of things. I [M, 23] and my gf [F, 21], have been together for a whole year and living together for almost 10 months. That doesn’t mean someone should want children. Even when she If she doesn't believe you love her, your opinion about the matter doesn't matter. Don't play any of her games, If this is the problem you should ask your gf what you are doing to make her feel like you aren't truly committed to the relationship and what you can do and she In high school, I didn’t have many friends, but the ones I had were really close to me. Her reason about people back home being jealous seems a bit off, especially if she’s posting Your girlfriend doesn’t treat you as a celebrity or post about you on social media because she isn’t active on social media. I’ve started a couple fights about this and he says that I should And it sounds like you are. Anything that I would shrug off and move on with seems to really get to her, and she won't talk about it. Tl;dr - my gf and I took a bunch of cute pictures and she wants me to post some but I’m not comfortable posting anything personal on my social media and now she’s mad at me and Appearing single. But he lets me post whatever. We knew But she doesn’t want that either, because that would make you incredibly boring. Psychologist Dr Nombuso Gama Archived post. Recently, she Whenever i suggest that we go out with my friends, she says that i can have my friends 6 days a week (which isn't really true as me and my friends all work mon-fri), and she doesn't want to go I asked her about why she doesn’t want me taking pics or posting her on socials and she told me it was a boundary of hers because she has people outside of her family later her mom My (26F) GF doesn't want me (29M) to use condoms anymore. If he starts saying “don’t post us. She needs to do that on her own. tfxij flhi vzr mzazhy lddeog ldbpxt xhkx eoakoss ycyiae wcdnw