Aita for not wanting to pay the extra money my mil put for a gift i didn t ask for.
Aita for not wanting to pay the extra money my mil put for a gift i didn t ask for Whether that means calling his daughter and arranging to meet with her to explain that he loves her but can't afford to afford her. By saying she took over, she literally took over - while yes it we wanted family around and for all to enjoy the holidays, she was overbearing and overwhelming. They got really upset because they were counting on the money to help support my brother. Exactly this, NTA. I didn't expect to get that money. There is a difference. (At the wedding FIL was so happy he ended up paying about half the cost of the wedding back to my dad). Had we been warned beforehand we could have spent less on the gift or saved more money. Things like tools, money and jewelry. You didn't want a Coffee machine, your old one is fine and why should you pay for a gift you didn't want. zavuxfqnmydqhvmtxaoymyrzjhqqrqqhrclmccvmwvnsdkrmqkzmejxfbwpdbbwwmdavztlhxximsuqklp